Hi Sheldon,
Your bring up some very real concerns. I don't know how any of us square the risks of once having PCa since we are never pronounced "cured" at some future date as is the case with other cancers. I don't have just one good answer.
I have tough days and very good days. There are folks on this forum that have post treatment numbers that are very worrisome to me, yet they promote a very positive attitude by their example.
A medical site had a discussion post by a breast cancer patient where she said, "If you have been diagnosed with cancer and are reading this message, you are a cancer survivor!" That is an interesting way to think about
it.
I suppose some of our brethren here with more advanced symptoms look at each day as a gift.
To give me a boost, I look at the yananow.net site and review the EXPERIENCES section. I see the great majority who are still alive and well many years after their treatment. That was the first web site I used before I got the fantastic support on this forum.
All in all, I think each of us just have to search for some kind of normalcy. The general human population are walking around with ticking health time bombs (heart problems, cancers, etc.) and don't know it. Most enjoy each day they live. I guess we've been given a little more knowledge about
our morality that, at times, we'd prefer not to have.
Activity in Church and at work really helps me feel more normal. I hope and pray that you will find your "normal zone."
Remember, being a cancer patient is not your most important identifying personal feature to those who love you.
Kind regards,
Barry