Welcome riggerjon,
I hope that you are a success story here on healingwell.
I am now 4 months after surgery and life is back to normal for as much as it can be. I just spent 3 days and 2 nights with my 8 year old Cub Scout on a hot, wet camping weekend. I have a 19 yo becoming a college freshman this fall and 2 more active kids in between. There is not always a lot of room for PC, but it does cross my mind once in a while.
You will find support for your concerns and questions here. Look for progress in healing on a weekly basis. Don't try to rush things (easier said than done).
Keep healing and look forward to some zeroes.
Dan