GTA, you are doing the best thing for yourself right now by researching and asking questions. I believe many guys simply follow the initial instructions given by their urologist, without question. I could have been one of those guys, if it wasn't for this forum and another one I read daily. From the insight provided by guys who have gone down this road, I learned to get second opinions on my initial PSA, my initial pathology, and in the end, leave my urologist who found my PC and had laid out a plan for me to have surgery by him. At the time, he had done only 40 daVinci robotic surgeries so, again with the counsel from health forums, I new it was vital to find the most experienced surgeon possible. I found two surgeons in New England who had both done over 1,000 da Vinci surgeries. Dr. Hu came as a personal reference by a dear friend who had surgery by Dr. Hu two years ago and he is very satisfied with the outcome. I decided on robotic vs.
open because I believe given equal and vast experience of the surgeons, the results will be better with robotic assisted. To hedge, I made an appointment with Dr. Wagner in Connecticut, just in case I didn't like Dr. Hu. Once I met Dr. Hu, I realized he would be my surgeon. I had surgery at Faulkner Hospital, which is very near Brigham, because Dr. Hu operated there two days per week and that provided me more flexibility on choosing a date, and also, the patient automatically stays in a private room, but at Brigham it would be a double. The staff at Faulkner was superb. Previous to this episode, I had never stayed in a hospital overnight, so I wasn't sure what to expect. I had my first post-op PSA blood test on Friday and I now await the results. Incontenence has been surprisingly not a real problem. I only use one pad per day, just in case, but I really could get by without it. If I over Kegel during the day, I think that encourages a little dribble, but it's really not a big issue. The other one though, impotence, is still an unknown for me. So far, not much happening down there. Dr. Hu was not a big fan of viagra therapy. I brought up the subject and he said it'll take time and the research doesn't support the expense. That disappointed me because I know all about
ADC and their cheap generic. BM's started on the 4th day after surgery and have not been a problem at all. I hope all of this helps.
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