Thank you all for your comments it is great to be able to talk to people who know what you are going through and can tell it like it is. Not sure the doctors are always completely honest about side effects. I am being told that since I currently have no incontinence problems that should be the case after surgery and that the side effects are mild more frequency and some rectal bleeding from what you all have experience is this the case?
David, good luck on the PSA next week I will be thinking of you.
Jakester, you are right we are getting the same advice good luck on your treatments.
Magaboo, Thanks for the information and encouraging words on the treatments and side effects.
geezer99, I hope you are right I would love to look back in 3 years and have a good laugh with the kid.
Rolerbe, I definitely will try to take on this monster.
Jerry1