Hello dbros9:
Five months ago I was about where you are now -- confronted with a difficult choice and getting varied opinions from solid professionals. In all, I met with three surgeons, one radiation oncologist, my primary care physician, and a general medical oncologist. The medical oncologist summarized his role as "not having a horse in this race", and I find that approach helpful as I discussed my options with him. In the end I settled on robotic surgery, which occurred in November and went well (so far at least). Essentially, there is no sure thing in any of this, and the ultimate and mosr important outcome (to not die of prostate cancer) will not be known for many years.
Of all the materials I reviewed while considering my course of action the referenced study and article below from the New England Journal of Medicine was by far the most helpful to me.
The study followed 1200+ men and their partners for two years. Interviews were conducted before surgery, and at 2, 6, 12, and 24 months. Respondents were asked to guage their "degree of satisfaction" with "Changes in Quality of Life After Primary Care Treatment" in five areas, including Sexual Satisfaction and Urinary Incontinence. The results are graphed out nicely in Figure 1 in the article referenced below; you can keep clicking on Figure 1 it to get it to readable size.
I found the results more than interesting, and not that surprising from what I had learned anecdotally on this Board and other locations.
For example, the men undergoing Prostatectomy were divided into Nerve-Sparing and Non- Nerve Sparing groups. After two years, 40% of the Nerve-Sparing group reported they were sexually satisfied; only around 20% of the Non-sparing group reported satisfaction. The two groups were much closer on satisfaction with urinary continenece, roughly 80% and 70% were satisfied.
My personal choices, because of my situation, came down to Non- Nerve Sparing Prostatectomy (one bundle removed and told by all three surgeons that is what they would do) or a combination of Radiotherapy + NHT (hormones) for six months. Surprisingly (at least to me), the Radiotherapy + NHT group reported about the same level of sexual satisfaction as the Non- Nerve Sparing prostatactomy group (roughly 20%). That helped tilt things for me towards surgery as I decided radiation had its own problems, hormones reportedly are not much fun, and either way the sexual recovery part was going to be tough for me at best. Better to know before hand.
Well, here is the article. I found, and still find, the data fascinating if not exactly what I would have liked to read.
Best wishes in a difficult time.
http://content.nejm.org/cgi/content/full/358/12/1250
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Age 66
PSA: 6.0 on 07/31/09 having risen from 4.2 on 12/02/08. Free PSA 23.5%.Other PSA History: 4.3 on 05/01/08; 3.3 on 11/15/07; 3.1 on 05/20/07; 4.0 on 11/30/06; 3.40 on 09/01/05.
Biopsy: 09/04/09 13 snips; two positive. Right Mid 4+3 = 7 and 15% of the total volume. Right Lateral Mid 4+3 = 7 and 20% of the total volume.
DaVinci robotic surgery: 11/05/09. Post surgery pathology: margins clean, no invasion of seminal vessels, no upgrade of the Gleason scores, no evidence of cancer outside the prostate capsule.
Cathether removed one week later: 11/12/09. No incontinence. Stopped pads after two days. No problems at night.
Post surgery PSA: Test scheduled early February. That will tell a tale.