CapeCodRealtor,
If it turns out that you have prostate cancer, I'll give you a few very basic tips - and then, as you apparently already know, you'll get a whole lot more from others.
1. Do not rush, do not let yourself be rushed. You will have to make some decisions for which there are no clear answers. I'll repeat that - there are no clear answers. That means your doctor doesn't have all the answers; no other doctor has all the answers; no book has all the answers; and no one on this board has all the answers (except maybe me [img]/community/emoticons/smilewinkgrin.gif[/img] ).
2. Gather as much information as you can and then make the best decisions you can and never look back. Ask questions. Talk to urologists, radiologists, oncologists - and get second opinions. Talk to your local experts but also take advantage of your relative proximity to Boston, where you will find a vast amount of expertise. Learn to use Medline. Post as many threads as you need to here on Healing Well, but use your common sense and your research results to filter the information you get here.
3. Many, many, many men live many, many, many years after receiving a diagnosis of prostate cancer.
Zen9
P.S. When you say, "no prostate in family history," I presume you are referring to prostate cancer. If not, and you really do have no prostates in your family history, that raises several questions. [img]/community/emoticons/eyes.gif[/img]
Post Edited (Zen9) : 12/16/2010 7:23:56 PM (GMT-7)