And yes, if you spend as much of your time as some of us do on HW, it is because you have bigger issues than the average patient, or you just like to help the new guys. Maybe both.
A lot of men have surgery and in a matter of months, they move on. Happens often at my support group, where primarily younger guys are there and gone in a few meetings.
My uro told me 98% get most continence back in a year. But then I knew better. So at 18 months out I am still in the 2%. Then you need to ask him, "Precisely, what do you mean by Continent? Leak Free, Pad Free (i.e. no drips ever); a guard pad to catch the occasional leak, one pad used a day, two pads a day", etc. You will find that many uros think you are continent if you don't leave a yellow trail in the snow. For me, dry meant stone dry. I wasn't expecting to have to invest in Depends. So in that discussion, I'm not as happy as I would have liked to have been.