David (mom says hi!), David, BB, et al,
I have the same discussion in progress. Come late Sept. (hopefully after GFMPH weekend) I will know what my real PSA doubling time is over a year elapsed. After 3 tests it is a solid 45 days.
Having had DaVinci surgery, G 4+5, + Adjuvant RT (lots of RT side effects, no HT) I have HT as the next step. I have contacted an important medical oncologist, but he feels I should try and fail HT with my current (well respected) uro before his skills kick in. So, based on the Sept. PSA (expected to be the third confirmation of a 45-day doubling), I get to pull the trigger. GFMPH guys, be ready for a freaked out participant.
But I have a completely different scheme. No wife, no kids, no grandkids. Hanging in mainly to keep from losing my insurance as an employee, so I don't have to find a bridge to live under.
No desire to live badly, but I can't even go to a movie today.
At age 58, things could change. A cute girl could home in on my pension, or want my car in a 30-day quickie marriage settlement. Since it will all go to an indirect relative, if she finished me off, at least I would go happy and unburdened.
I guess my point is that Quality Of Life beats, and by far, Quantity Of Life for me today.