Starchild, there are some excellent responses here. Knowledge is power and you will have some time to explore all avenues of treatment. My husband would not even consider AS. As Terry (the Water Guy) mentions, the Gleason score could be higher than what it is now. It did increase for my husband.
I am so sorry you have a need to be here, but you will find support for various methods. My husband wanted the cancer out as soon as possible. He did meet with various specialists as part of the investigative team. DaVinci was recommended as being the best option.
Your children are young and there are so many exciting moments coming up in their lives! They want their Dad to be there for their High School/College Graduation. Maybe their wedding and the birth of your first Grandchild. Living only 10 years (with AS) is not enough time. I hope you will consider some form of treatment to attack this monster - PCa. I wish you the best as you learn more and make your decision.
Aimzee