Welcome aboard Fred, glad you found us.
I was born and raised in Charleston. I go back every year to visit relatives. Going back in June to spend a week on Folly Beach.
Yes, it does take awhile for the nerves to wake up after surgery. I had my surgery about
2 months before you and I am still struggling with ED. I haven't tried Trimix but it seems to work well for a lot of the guys. I can reach orgasm and very strong ones just not the old fashion way.
When I had surgery, I accepted that Incontinence and ED issues were going to be with me. I am just recovering this week from installation of an AUS to help end the dribbles I had since surgery. You didn't mention incontinence, are you dry now. If so you have passed one hurdle already with one more to go so you are ahead of me.
I didn't elect to have an implant installed as some guys do when they have an AUS. That is a possibility. I would give it a little more time yet. It hasn't been 2 years since your surgery, it has taken your body years to develop a T2C Gleason 7 tumor.
Good luck
Bill from Florida