Is all this ED stuff worth it when the Misses is no longer Interested

PSA3DOT7

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Posted 6/17/2014 11:53 PM (GMT 0)

My misses has gone through the "change" and she's just NOT interested! I'm not giving up though, I'm keeping the old-fella healthy she might just change into a sex-fiend and I wont be ready. Given this guarded optimism there are days when I'm all dressed up and have nowhere to go!

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goodlife

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Posted 6/18/2014 2:06 PM (GMT 0)

I have found that interest comes and goes. My advice be to stick with it, and you may be surprised that she will come back on her timetable. Sometimes they respond to cuddling and huggng, and next thing you know, she is interested.

Also, your interest may be different than what it was, especially if you are resorting to sticking Willie with a needle.

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Posted 6/18/2014 10:51 PM (GMT 0)

Agreed!....stay positive.

Keep going.....

Tall Allen

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Posted 6/18/2014 11:05 PM (GMT 0)

Agreed. Nothing evokes interest on her part like tangible evidence of interest on your part.

- Allen

kukukajoo

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Posted 6/19/2014 1:09 AM (GMT 0)

I love your attitude! I hope she does come round for you.

Has she explored medical options as well? there is a lot for ladies out there with therapies and such.

I haven't reached that point yet but the way I was sweating at work today made me wonder if its down the road just past that next bend...

MsWorryWart

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Posted 6/19/2014 2:08 AM (GMT 0)

Tall Allen said...
Agreed. Nothing evokes interest on her part like tangible evidence of interest on your part.

- Allen

B I N G O !

Haliday

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Posted 6/19/2014 5:46 AM (GMT 0)

Hmmm. . . Menopause made me MORE interested. Perhaps she is just feeling unattractive? I agree that your interest and adoration will trigger hers. Romance her a little. Let her know she is beautiful to you. (Works for my husband every time :). The new HT protocol is that now we PLAN to have sex so he generally pops a vitamin V about an hour before i get home from work. So far, so good.

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