Wade,
Best of luck to you. My husband just had surgery two weeks ago. He is 43 and was not comfortable waiting. He had a Gleason 6, but it was shown through chromosomal testing that his adenocarcinoma had an aggressive biomarker. It comes down to doing what is right for you. We spoke to doctors and many people that had different stories and different treatments. We did what he and his doctors felt was right for him. Be positive and strong! My hubby is getting stronger every day