Retired Tech, I'd agree that your case seems rare/odd. Specifically the combination of
low PSA yet
distant mets. Glad to hear that despite all that you report your QOL is "great"...congratulations!
Your clinical biopsy sampling of G6 is also somewhat surprising, given the advanced progression. A 12-core biopsy from an average sized prostate samples only about 1% of the prostate material, so it is not all together surprising that your biopsy (did you only have one prostate biopsy?) did not find the cells that had obviously developed into a more aggressive pattern.
Best wishes for your upcoming 50th!