I agree, Yooper, it certainly does make sense. Further, and speaking as someone who will be 70 years old this summer, I don't think there's a whole lot of sexual activity going on among the men I know who are in my age group who DID NOT have any form of prostate cancer treatment.
First, there wives are no longer all that receptive to sexual overtures.
Second, their libido is naturally declining as they age.
Third, most are on beta blockers or have Type Two Diabetes or other physical problems that inhibit sexual desire/activity. In my case, having a prostatectomy at 65 coincided with the onset of diabetes and an increase in blood pressure medication, two certain killers of EF. I suspect that situation has affected quite a few men on this forum.
Fourth, our culture places such a premium on youth and physical beauty that they may no longer be "turned on" by their aging wives (and the same holds true for women not being all that turned on by balding, pot-bellied, old men).
Also, a cold, hard look in the mirror might reinforce the idea that we no longer present ourselves as a virile young stud, and, let's, face it, sex is to a large extent a mental activity. A poor self image is a real turn-off.
We who have been treated for prostate cancer, whether by radiation or by surgery, seem to stress out more over what is really a quite natural phenomenon....the loss of sexual appetite and ability as we age...and so we blame all of it on our cancer treatment. Wrong.
Thanks, Allen. Yes, I lost a lot of my sexual ability because of my surgery, and I suppose others have lost function because of other therapies, but there's a whole lot of B.S. out there by old guys bragging about
sexual prowess that only exists in their imaginations. We may not be as different in this regard as we sometimes think we are.
Obviously, these comments are directed at those of us who are in the older age group here on the forum. The younger guys in their 40's and 50's are a different story.
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