compiler said...
Actually, your doctors are correct:
Radiation after a failed surgery is certainly do-able whereas the reverse is not that easy at all (much more difficult surgery). That is an extremely VALID point and should be considered.
We have had this argument many times, and I've given up responding to it (I get tired). But I'll try again:
It is true that if SRT (Salvage radiation treatment) succeeds, you can then say that the surgery was unnecessary as most likely the radiation itself would have been successful. But that is specious reasoning as you DO NOT KNOW THAT going in. Hey, there are plenty of possible treatments. If you knew in advance that treatment X would have worked, then of course you would choose treatment X. But, GOING IN, you have no idea. I understand that you should try and pick the best first shot tx. But, again, the idea of having radiation as a back-up plan/hedge is quite valid. Your doctor is correct. I get villified when I point this out!
So, you need to look at your age and general health and choose your poison. The surgery SE will be more immediate and the SE should improve over time, but one never knows. In fact, I think surgeons tend to minimize ED. For me (a sample size of ONE): I had incontinence for 2 weeks and it resolved 100%. I had ED and still do to a degree. As a steady HW participant, it seems that my experience is VERY typical. You have to be honest with yourself and decide how important the SE is. I have to say that we have accepted the ED. I don't like it one bit, but I have accepted it. The incontinence would be miserable. Now, with radiation, many minimize the SE. My understanding is that they come on slowly over a period of a few years. Bowel problems and urinary problems can occur. I guess you can do the research. There are cases on HW where surgery went horribly wrong and cases where radiation was a disaster. But these are outliers. People have died during routine small surgical procedures.
This is not a cut and dried decision. It is not clear-cut. Be careful of those who always advocate one solution over the other.
It depends so much on your situation and you are unique in how you view things.
As an example of uniqueness, I've mentioned my situation where I had BPH for probably 15 years. Flomax was great for about 12 years. But, then, it kind of stopped working. I had great difficulty urinating at times. Twice, I had my jacket on about to go to the hospital for the dreaded cathaterization. Fortunately, things improved at the last minute. Had I not suddenly had the PC dx., I was looking into getting a green light laser tx. So, the BPH was one of the many reasons I chose surgery. In MY UNIQUE SITUATION (the BPH), it was a good choice. I have not had a repeat of that misery (being unable to pee).
Mel
Though I am not usually, or overall, an advocate of surgery(at least for myself if I had another shot at choosing), I must hands down admit one thing: when it comes to doing away with problems of my giant prostate ( 106 gms ) combined with 30 years of on and off miserable prostatitis, the surgery has been wonderful. I pee like a racehorse. In public restrooms I now notice lots of guys taking all day, but no one is faster than me, the fastest pee in the west or east! I often sleep all night long, 7-8 hrs, without ever having to get up. I can drive for hours without needing to stop to pee. As long as my one remaining problem- a mysterious spasm of something(bladder?) that tries to force a squirt of urine out involuntarily several times a day- does not strike faster than I can Kegel/clamp down- I can be up and walking for well over 2 or more hours with no problems. I often notice that I might leave for church a few minutes before 0900, not bother to get to the reat room while gone, and get home about
1300, realizing I am not in any particular hurry to pee. That part is like being 16 again. In fact, I happily challenge any of you to a pissing contest! ;) Other parts were more like waking up aged 35 years, but that one part is undeniably a good deal. Or at least it was once I quit peeing myself, although it was good at night from the day the cath came out.
That part has been wonderful. People with severe BPH might want to take that into consideration. Of course, for all I know, RT and/or HT might also have a beneficial result on BPH. I wouldn't know. And, with surgery, you might have to take on other onerous and even permanent SEs in order to enjoy peeing like age 16 and sleeping all night.