Urologists always say that, and it's misleading. If the radiation doesn't work, you have salvage opportunities with focal brachytherapy or focal ablation.
You have Gleason 4+3, which is classified as unfavorable intermediate risk. I just reviewed a study from U of Mich, and was particularly impressed by the high cure rates they reported for the combination of brachytherapy and IMRT (look at the section titled oncological outcomes), and potency preservation was excellent as well:
/pcnrv.blogspot.com/2017/03/vessel-sparing-imrt-spares-erectile.htmlYou can use the following nomogram to see your odds of surgery being curative:
/www.mskcc.org/nomograms/prostate/pre-opAs you can see, your odds are quite a bit lower with surgery. If you have salvage radiation after surgery, you would expect that to be curative about
half the time, which would still be lower than the brachy boost therapy but would add considerably to side effects.
If you have access to radiation oncologists in the Boston area, why mess with anyone local? You have Irving Kaplan at Beth Israel Deaconess, Anthony Zietman at Mass General, and Anthony D'Amico at Brigham and Women's. You won't find better than those anywhere.