Posted 6/14/2017 1:39 AM (GMT 0)
Snowcake
This sounds so difficult to deal with. He seemed fine so recently.....of course it's hard too when it happens a little bit at a time over a long time, but at least then we have time to prepare our minds. This has been so horribly sudden for you.
You will need lots of strength going forward to help him the best you can. All those regrets about what happened in the past, and what should have happened, and what might have been different, we all have those, but they don't help. He's still your dad, and you are helping him now, in the present, by being there for him. That's what matters and I do hope you find some comfort in that.
Carolyn