oh boy, I'm in your shoes right now- Remicade is doing very little anymore, even at a high dose. My GI said we could try Humira, but he's not optimistic. He's been talking surgery for the past year now! I did some research myself, & discovered that of the Humira users who went onto it due to lack or response to Remicade, approximately 20% got some measure of relief. Most got nothing. I've found that it's promising when it's used initially, but if you stop responding to Remicade, chances are Humira may buy you a couple more months, that's about
it. Stinks. Plus it does have all the nasty side effects that Remicade has. So, I haven't talked with my Gi since my colonoscopy this past Friday (which was horrific), but when I do, I am going to tell him I don't want to try Humira. Right now I'm waiting for my surgeon to call me back. I'm done, stick a fork in me, turn me over, etc., etc., etc.... Currently, surgery doesn't scare me- it gives me peace of mind. My husband said to me "Just do it so we can get back to being a family!". He wishes I had done it months ago when I originally had it scheduled. But it made me think, it's so true- my kid & husband have been waiting in the wings for me- Mom doesn't do this or that cause of the bathroom issue, Mom doesn't go on long car trips (heck, even short trips!), Mom is ALWAYS in the bathroom. It's not fair, to them or myself.