Johnny,
Welcome to the forum.
Regarding: Ever since I was diagnosed things have been extremely bumpy. Every time I get close to being better I get a cold/flu or something which causes a flair.
Are you on any probiotics?
These are very important. If not, I would suggest you ask your doc for a prescription for VSL #3DS ( have him write it as 4 sachets per day, so it will give you some leaway, i.e. when you are flaring you'll take 4 per day, and when you're not you can drop down to 2-3).
Also, as soon as I feel a cold coming on, or even if I"m undergoing more stress than usual, I will double up on the probiotics and it nips it in the bud.
I would suggest that if you're not already on probiotics to get good ones, and if you are taking them, double them at the first sign of a cold or flare.
If you are interested in other suggestions, there are things IMO that you can control, which will have a direct impact on your disease, the symptoms you experience and their severity.
I was able to control my UC into remission through various supplements, probiotics, diet modification, and LDN , low dose naltrexone.
For more info on the protocol which has put me into remission, please go to this link: https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=38&m=1666318 , and look at the 11th post.
I hope you feel better and let us know how we can help you.