i dont stay here because im unhappy! i do ocasionally come by and ask a question on the ostomy board about
a new product or something. but i stay here because when i was making my decision and i was terrified and scared and had no idea what to do the people here helped me and answered my questions and inspired me with their stories, and i wouldnt have been able to make it through without them. And i want to pay it forward to help other people who are as scared as i was. to help other people who are suffering after meds have failed them because they are so afraid of surgery because they don't know the truth.
And no removing your eyeballs doesn't cure blindness, that's not even a valid comparsion, removing your eyeballs would cause blindness. removing your colon doesn't cause UC.
there are tradeoffs for every treatment of UC, diets that work restrict what you can eat, meds have sometimes dangerous sideeffects, and surgery (any surgery) comes with risks. I didn't choose to do a diet because i didn't think giving up all the things i loved to eat was worth it, when i knew with surgery i could eat those things. I didn't choose meds because i knew there were dangerous side effects and i knew they might fail anytime. Some people are really lucky and can achieve remission with meds or diets and are happy with that. I never could be well enough to settle for it. Some people with UC are fine and living their lives, and some of those people are here helping others. Here's the thing about surgery, the majority of us are happy about it, some have complications, some have lots of output, some have trouble getting their wafers to stick or trouble with pouchitis. but all of us are UC free, we are all cured of that disease! and that was all that was important to me, i knew i was miserable with the disease with the meds wtih the restrictions and i knew that surgery might not be perfect but i knew it was better than just sticking with what i had and staying that way forever.
I don't think its fair at all to say most people aren't happy with their surgeries, i think they need to do a broader study, and take into account the lives the people had before hand.