kiolm said...
What did the Grandfather die of?
I don't know. This was in China during the time of the Qing Dynasty. My ex is about
13 years older than me, and his dad is much older than him, probably some 45+ years. His mother is about
40 years older than my ex. Who knows how much older my ex's grandfather was in comparison to my ex's father. So we are talking about
some old history here.
Anyway, here is the story as it's been told to me:
The Manchurians used to rule China during the Qing Dynasty. Corruption and opium caused the dynasty to collapse. (My ex's father and grandfather are Manchurian. My ex looks more like some American Indian tribal people than Chinese, which makes sense given that American Indians came from across the Barring Straight.)
Anyway, my ex's grandfather became an opium addict. He was so addicted to opium that people would come to his land, take his gold, and he would do nothing. Knowing history, I wouldn't be surprised if the reality is that drug dealers came to his home and gave him opium in exchange for gold, which they then dug up and carried away. It was common during that period. Anyway, my ex's grandfather eventually lost all the family's money. My ex's father grew up poor as a result. He left home when he was young. He doesn't know what happened to his father. I don't think he wanted anything to do with his father. When my ex's father was older, probably in his 40s, he joined the KMT (Kuo Ming Tang) party, went to Texas to learn how to fly airplanes, and faught against the Japanese in World War II. After the war ended and Mao became chairman, my ex's father escaped to Taiwan when the KMT fleed to Taiwan. He brought his pregnant wife, their newborn daughter, and his wife's 16-year old nephew. My ex was born in Taiwan in 1949. They brought enough gold to start a business. They tried manufacturing soap. It didn't work. They then tried making noodles, which did very well, and enabled my ex's mother to buy many properties and send her son to the US to get his graduate degree. Yes. It's his mom who managed the money. She had studied accounting for two years in college back in China.
My ex expected me to be like his mom, go to college and learn business, start a company, and make lots of money. Obviously, that didn't happen. I did go to college and graduate school, learned business, and started a company with my ex. But the business didn't make money.
Post Edited (subdued) : 3/8/2011 12:11:45 AM (GMT-7)