I am in sympathy. That is why I favor the universal type of options, and why I am a critic of the large profit margins in health insurance. While our society might be willing to let someone suffer in isolated cases, it seems to be part of our basic nature to do something when another is hurt or dying. This is not perfect, and some individuals are colder, but it stems from traits like empathy, reciprocal expectations, perspective taking ... etc. These are part of human nature, and it is likely why we have laws that emergency rooms can't turn people away and so on.
So for me, if we are not going to tell everyone w/o insurance to suck-it-up, then we may as well provide universal coverage in a sensible way, instead of by emergency room (and prison) default.
I think the portion of your last post that bears close examination is the word "they" in "they are not going to provide" and "they should just ship me off". I think you really mean "we", as in our society. My point was that it is not the insurance company's role to provide you or anyone healthcare - only to hedge the costs of unexpected healthcare. (this gets a little more fuzzy if we consider the expected costs of routine preventative care, but leave it for now.)
I am saying that the whole health insurance in America thing is a kind of silly way to do things, but at the same time it makes perfect sense for a for profit insurance company to decline a losing bet.
I think much of the anger I hear folks directing towards pre-existing condition policies, should really be directed against more general social policy.
The other word, perhaps most important, is "worth" as in "not worth treating". It is society's place to affirm
individual worth and to say that everyone is worth treating. But remember, insurance does not treat; it reimburses. It is only the insurance company's place to decide if it is worth taking your bet - which has nothing to do with your worth as a person.
Once we stop muddling the issues, the decision space becomes clearer, and the potential for meaningful social dialog/change presents.
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But my sympathy is also for you as an individual. I just dodged having to look for new insurance while in a flare, so maybe even "empathy". You cannot change social policy by yourself, and you are in a way forced to participate in the insurance-healthcare system. Understandably, you just want relief. You want it now - not in some abstract future where social issues are resolved. I hear you.
I am only saying to blame the insurance companies for large profits, or for obstructing changes in healthcare policy - do not blame them for declining a losing bet.
Post Edited (DBwithUC) : 2/14/2012 2:45:11 PM (GMT-7)