SouthernGirl6 said...
I can understand the stress effect of people like your ex moving in..it seems sometimes I have people in my life who make me feel like I'm being pecked to death by a chicken, especially here lately.
Yeah pecked to death. Great big house but kept coming into kitchen whenever I was in there and just outrageous jealousy that my daughter seeks my counsel, company and leadership. After she drinks it gets even crazier - enough is enough. I just had to mentally preview the next walk downstairs and *bang* I would have an urgency attack.
As humans we are vulnerable. Why do we hate the overly enthusiastic sales guy ? Cuz we get pulled into their mood even when we are not ready for it. Meanwhile some people like to walk into a room and spread a bad mood around. Headphones help but distance is the only way back to happiness and healthy living. Must get the negative energy people out of home and work.
Tried one last time to talk today and she fillibustered 100% cannot take the truth - there just is no talking to her. Lease says 4 weeks unless the turmoil/conflict continues then she is out in 72 hours with call to sheriff. Meanwhile I still give her 600 a month in support that she spends entirely on herself. Better get a place and some overnights or that will *disappear* by order of the judge.