I was diagnosed at age 60, 3 years after I retired.
The first few years were very hard but there has been gradual improvement during the past 7 years.
Most improvements in symptoms happened since I found this forum just over a year ago.....which is very encouraging.
How do I deal with it?
-I've accepted that I have UC, an illness that (sometimes) dictates my choices. I take my meds faithfully and avoid things that are bad for me.
-I'm grateful that I can still enjoy life most of the time...things could be a lot worse.
-I've learned to live in the present. Don't worry about
having this when I'm 80 or 90. Could get hit by a truck before then or be cured.
-I've become very
open about
having UC and do not feel embarrassed or ashamed about
something over which I have no control.
-I've somehow managed to keep my sense of humor (my most valuable asset).
P.S. I think I resent the "really old" comment. Don't you know that 70 is the new 50?