Posted 7/11/2013 4:40 AM (GMT 0)
My body used to be able to hang on, until I got stuck with an 8am 3-hour lab. I couldn't just run to the bathroom for 10 minutes mid-sentence. I am so embarrassed to admit this but I definitely crapped myself 5-6 times in front of a bunch of college students. I mean, I'm proud to say that I just kept talking and did everything I could to let on that nothing had happened. But the next 10 minutes in the bathroom trying to clean up was just ... oh god, so awful.
In terms of what I can recommend, the BEST thing you can do is Depends. I would sometimes wear a menstrual pad to try to solve the problem, but I'll tell ya, that didn't help very much at all. I was definitely in serious denial about how well I could handle the problem, but I wish I had just sucked it up and bought the diapers. It would have been less humiliating than having so many accidents.
One other thing you can do is make sure your colleagues are aware of the problem. Our lab coordinator was aware of how sick I was, as were the other grad students who were teaching the same class. I also was lucky enough to have teaching assistants, and my TA in my 8am lab was great at handling the class when I had to leave to go to the bathroom. I still couldn't leave while I was mid-lecture, but I could leave while students were doing the labwork or group work.
Best of luck!