UCwhat? said...
I don't even know where to start with this thread....
Surgery is a BIG DEAL, and it does not always go as planned. There can be complications, both short and long term. You miss work or school, it is expensive, it takes a toll on your body. Heck, it could kill you. It is not a decision that is often made easily, nor should it be taken lightly.
Surgery is NOT a cure for UC. Yes, once you are rid of the colon, the worst of the problems that UC causes are gone, but the disease itself is NOT gone. There are many extraintestinal manifestations of UC that can show up at any time....with or without a colon.
"No one wants a bag hanging off of their stomach?" REALLY?!?! This comment doesn't even justify a response. I DID want a bag hanging off my stomach because I did NOT want to suffer immeasurably or die!! And I know someone will come along with the "if you could be healthy OR have a bag, you wouldn't want a bag" Well....DUH! Of course had I never gotten UC I wouldn't "want a bag", but that is just a silly argument to even make in this context.
And there ARE some people with UC that are NOT eligible for the J pouch, so they actually DO have to have a bag hanging off their stomach for longer than a few months. They have it forever.
And then, there are those of us with UC who DID choose to have an end ileostomy, even though we could've gone for the Jpouch. I did not want the risk involved with multiple MAJOR surgeries. I was too sick to keep trying to find the right treatment for me. And honestly, even if I had found a treatment that worked, I probably would've opted for surgery anyway. I would not want to live a life waiting for the next flare, worrying constantly about everything I eat, any feeling that isn't quite right, any BM that isn't totally 'normal'. We all have our reasons for choosing or NOT choosing surgery, and some of us don't have a choice at all.
And yes, I do still have some UC symptoms, even though I don't have my colon. I DO have a bag on my stomach forever, and mucous drainage from my back side. But I have never for one second regretted or even questioned my choice to have ileostomy surgery. I do everything I ever did before I got sick and feel better than I have in a VERY long time.
Sorry, I guess this response got off on a tangent....but for some reason a lot of the stuff in this thread really rubbed me the wrong way.
Look, she asked for a response, I gave one. I didn't ask for a response from you, but its nice to know your opinion despite pointing out that the response I didn't ask for wasn't justified.
If anyone gets surgery and is happy with it, thats awesome. Clearly, by the majority of the posts here, you can see surgery is a major surrender, a LAST resort, and one Im not personally willing to concede.