the purpose of sharing, at least in this instance, is 1% boasting & 99% my way of saying >
1. things will get better - whatever path you take, in the end, it will be better. will it be the same as before UC ? probably not
there are too many variables, time being one of them - which leads me to >>>>>
2. it takes time - for me, almost 12 years ! i'm no different than anyone else - i'm impatient - i want things now - i don't want to feel like sh!t one more second - but the reality is, this US devil is serious stuff - it don't go away just cuz we want it to - it will do so on it's time, not ours -
so hang in there -