Posted 1/18/2015 10:52 PM (GMT 0)
Hiya, I'm having a flare-up at the moment, but when I am in remission, it is almost like normal life.
When I'm in remission, I go to the ladies as normal.
I get anaemic easily and am often tired, so I often have naps. I'm not as able to cope with exerting myself as I was before, as getting worn out can cause a flare-up. So this can affect career etc.
On the subject of careers, you have to tell your employer, and you have to declare it on any job application you submit. I'm not sure whether this applies to college and university aswell. They have to allow you time off for hospital appointments etc.
You have to attend regular hospital appointments even in remission, how often will depend on how ill you have been, and how long since your last flare-up. You have to have regular colonoscopies. In england it is 1st one, ten year gap, 2nd one, then 5 year yap after that. I'm not sure of the prescription system where you live, in england you can get a repeat dispensing prescription, so you can get your pills directly from the chemist for 6 months, then you need a doctor's appointment to get it re-authorised.
Financially there are not only your prescriptions to pay for, but any supplements, special food, etc. It will also cost you more in life insurance etc.
I stick to a mostly low residue diet (I can manage cooked veg, if really soft), as fibre almost always triggers a flare-up. So food-related things can be a bit more complicated, like going out for meals etc. or trying to lose weight.
I have to take my medicine 3 times a day, so you have to carry your pills in your handbag. When I was first diagnosed I bought a cheap watch and set the alarm to go off every 'pill time'. You have to have plenty of medicine at home, what I do is, when I open my last bottle of Asacol, that's when I get some more. I also stash away 'emergency medicine' such as leftover steroids etc. You never know when you might need it and the doctors are closed.
As far as a sex life, there are 'certain things' which I had never really considered before (my ex-husband was a gent), but are now absolutely 100% not going to happen with anyone ever.
Relationships in general you have to be a bit more sure about. I only tell people I trust about my UC, and even then it's not straight away. I wouldn't mention it until I think people will become part of my life.
Kids-I never wanted children anyway, but now it is a definite no, as I would hate to pass it on.
So to summarise, you can act more or less normal, but you have to think about it sometimes.