ramesses said...
wow that was a quick decision. my doctor has been trying to convince me for years now and i'm still hesitant. he said that once i get it done, my bowel movements will never be normal. i'll be going several times a day like 5 to 6 and i just don't see that as living a normal life. that means i will never be able to do anything in a day that doesn't have a bathroom close by.
It's certainly not perfect, but I go to pee a few times a day, so I can't be without a toilet indefinitely regardless. I still pee more times than I go #2, even with a jpouch. It's not ever going to be like you were with a perfectly functioning colon, but the reality for some of us is that we do not, and never will have, a perfectly functioning colon. I know in my case, the pain, drugs, expenses, toilet trips, urgency, frequency, were all impacting my life drastically before surgery. While it's not perfect post-surgery, ALL those things I just mentioned are gone, with the exception of frequency. For me though, this is much less frequent because I could have gone 20x+ a day with UC... I would starve myself to get through a day of work. Now, I eat whatever i want and going to work is not a problem in the least. I can actually go the whole 8 hour day at work without using the toilet. It depends on the day though. I have done so much more since getting my jpouch, than I did the whole time I had UC, and I only got it a year or two ago. I seriously lost years of my life for no reason. Life with UC isn't "normal" either. Most people don't take tons of drugs. Most people don't get frequent blood work, infusions, go to doctors appointments, end up hospitalized, eat like a bird... Most people don't hit their maximum out of pocket on their insurance. Normal people don't worry about
flare ups, or where the toilet is, whether they will make it to the toilet... There are a lot of abnormal things about
living with UC. Living with a jpouch has it's own "weirdness", but at least I am not worried about
whether I can get to the toilet and I never worry about
paying for drugs/doctors, or whether I "can" do something. I feel very capable with my jpouch. I always felt very limited living with UC.