Try not to worry, as Entyvio might be your ticket to a remission, just give it ample time. It's preferable to keep your large intestine if you can get your UC into a good, solid remission and it's still possible you can.
" i was kinda stunned that he was pretty much saying that i'd be out of options medicine wise. i had UC for a year... how could i be out of medications already?" Do you need surgery today? No, absolutely not. A lot of doctors mention surgery early to get you at least thinking about
that possibility, as the mental hurdle is often the hardest to cross. At this point you've failed one biologic, humira, and are starting a second, entyvio. If you were to fail both (too early to say on entyvio) then surgery would become more relevant of a discussion to have with your doctor. As your chance of a good outcome for a 3rd biologic when 2 have failed begin to get slim. Can a 3rd biologic work for some when others did not? Sure we've had some luck with stelara or xeljanz for a few posters, but the odds start to diminish rapidly. Some do fight it out, others do not, and it's a very personal choice. Being only a year into UC doesn't matter, as some of us do have very aggressive cases and sprint up the medication ladder. Is it much sooner than you expect? Likely. Is it too soon? No, not from a medical basis, as severe cases can move very fast and either respond or not to available treatments. For those who are nonresponders to everything, surgery can find them fast (only about
20 percent of us ultimately need a surgery, and 80 percent of us do not need it).
"my question is: for anyone with the pouch, how livable do you find it? i know there'd be an uncomfortable adjustment, but once i got over that, would i return to life pretty normally? my main thing is the urgency. would i still get that urgent feeling that has been plaguing me for almost 10 months? and is the pouch people could easily recognize when you are out in public?" I think you're mostly scared as you do not understand what the surgery is, outcomes, and lifestyle are like. I'd take this an opportunity to learn what you can, and I am sure it will not be what you are thinking. To start, the j-pouch surgery is almost the defacto surgery for UC patients, and the end result is having no colostomy bag or appliance attached to the outside of your body. Rather, you have an internal pouch made of the end of your small intestine that's attached to your sphincter muscles, meaning you poop as you do now: by sitting on the toilet. To the casual observer, you have nothing but a few small scars on your lower abdomen to show that you went through a surgery (scars visible with a swimsuit or other low cut outfit). Often the surgery is done in 2 or 3 steps, and you might temporarily have a colostomy bag for a few months, and there are a number of holders and clothing options that make it invisible.
Urgency is a thing of the past with UC surgery, as rectal and large intestinal inflammation are the direct cause of that urgency. With UC, only your large intestine is attacked and once it is removed the attack ceases. So with a j-pouch, you can hold it until it is convenient to poop a 1/2 hour, an hour, multiple hours or more when you want to. Something that is impossible with badly flaring UC, you cannot hold it and do accidents happen with flares.
It's true that a good outcome of j-pouch surgery is 4-6 bms a day. But they are spaced evenly out between the 24 hours in the day (not like UC flare which are all frequent and urgent bms clustered in the early AM). J-pouch bms are very quick and effortless, and usually done while peeing. How often and frequent do you pee within a given day? I bet it is darn close.
The lifestyle of J-Pouchers is without limits and free of UC symptoms, it's wonderful compared to constantly flaring in an uncontrollable manner. Most who've undergone surgery previously struggled with constant UC symtpoms for a long time, and it's liberating and wonderful to be free of wicked UC. Many say they wish they'd undergone the surgery much sooner and suffered less. Not every case is picture perfect, and rainbows and puppy dog tails, but the majority do have good outcomes.
Here's some additional reading:
Articles regarding the procedure -
There are also some good blogs out there that can help you get a handle on what the process is like from those who have undergone it -