Hi eca, I'm sorry to hear about
your daughter. Dealing with UC is never quite easy, especially at the age where you're supposed to roam free and have little to no worries. Unfortunately speaking about
my experience as someone who was diagnosed at a young age may not be the most helpful as I still struggle with it today and when I was younger I made a lot of stupid decisions but I am still experienced so here's my best advice.
Make sure she always takes her prescribed medication, especially during her flare-ups, when I was diagnosed I felt like a dying old man having to take my medication all the time and actively chose to skip out on some morning meds without my parent's knowing. This is obviously not smart because they're very necessary in order to get into remission and also cause other issues. Letting her know that she needs to speak to you or someone else whenever she's in pain/feeling signs of her flaring up is also important, when I was younger I found it very embarrassing to even tell my mother and father about
what I was going through so I kept it a secret for most of it, the earlier you get treatment the less you will have to go through for the most part so hopefully she knows you're there to support her. You seem to understand that diet is an important part of being healthy which is good, but here are some things that I use now while having a flare-up that definitely help me; Mangosteen juice is very good, it's not easy to find and I had to buy it from overseas as I live in Sweden but hopefully it's something you can find. It calms my stomach and has a sweet taste so I doubt she'll find it too disgusting. I also take ginger shots 3 times a day, this is very anti inflammatory and works wonders,
I also really enjoy the taste of ginger so my daily ginger shot is something I always look forward to.
Make sure she still eats but it's much better to have multiple smaller meals a day, a mistake I've made for sure is skipping out on meals and saving all of my hunger for whenever dinner is on the table and then chow down as much as possible, this isn't healthy either way but when you have a very sensitive stomach it should be avoidable at all costs. Eating a banana here and there, cutting my dinner in two and then save some for later that night, etc. It all helps me keep my tummy in check! There's a lot more to list but those are what help me the most whenever I'm in a flare and feel very helpless. I'm 100% sure any of these work just as fine when she's in remission too though
Feel free to ask anything else if need be.
eca said...
hi fragilant
looking back would not change things. I am new to this as a parent I have a 13.5 yr old daughter just diagnosed with pancolitis UC...out of the blue 2 months ago.
She takes it lightly but this is ok as she needs to continue to be a kid. I look after her diet, meds, I read and document myself for her..
I'm optimistic as I'm new to this. You have your life ahead of you and I'm sure progress will happen in your adult years to this terrible disease.
I believe diet is a major factor to help, as well as alternative medicine.
I did not figure out what to do next if condition worsen for her but praying is helping the hope up.
Could you share with me what has been the biggest impact so far in your teen years dealing with UC ? not sure what to prepare myself for ..
I know it is tough but it seems you're already heading into the direction of alternative healing and I think this is great.
nice to meet you hope to keep in touch- mom to 13UC