I work in stressful situations where one mistake could mean losing the companies biggest customer, referenceable customer. So people are on these high-tech work calls and when I have had too much stims and I use a lot of them, the stammer/stuttering really bothers me. I feel it instantly in my gut.
Check this out, if my daughter starts picking at her scalp, my mind sees it and internalizes what looks like stress to me, she may not even be stressed out I think it comforts her to do that BUT my mind sees it and instantly I feel it in the gut and have to ask her to stop while we talk