the bag is very easy to deal with, like 2 or 3 minutes to empty it. and about
10 minutes to change it every 4 or 5 days. It just is kind of there, doesn't show, doesn't smell, just hangs out on your side, lol.
You won't feel a BM sometimes you might feel gas tickle at your side, its kind of hard to explain that, but it doesnt hurt at all.
The pulling feeling that Charlotte is talking about goes away after a few months, and even then wont be as bad if you dont let the bag get that full and if you keep the bag tucked up instead of falling loosely. the skin irriation will also lessen as you get the hang of it!
Either way you go, jpouch or perm ileo, with that colon out you will feel better!