Like I said I am not trying to be offensive, but I am going to ask you the difficult questions that will come up in process, because it is about
giving you time to give serious thought about
what you want your answers to be. Others may support you in a way that says "right on." But I am going to support you in way that at the end of this process you will be able to hold your head up and say "I did everything I could to do what was in the best interest of all that were involved." I am concerned about
your long term happiness here, because obviously this has got to be painful. I hope you want to be the man who conduct himself in such a manner that will allow you to look your adult son in the eyes when he asks you about
this time in your life.
Given how sensitive an issue this is, I wanted to let you know there is also an option of a mediator in case you feel that this weekend's conversation could degrade into something that could be used against you given the history of mutual verbal abuse.