before my procedures, my surgeon reminded me that a good percentage of stories on the web about
ostomies & the j-pouch are negative since people frequently go online to complain, vent, and/or try to find solutions to their problems. you often never hear from the many, many people who had successful colon surgeries & recoveries.
just like this forum - when some members achieve remission they often disappear and you never hear from them again (until their next flare-up). if i was brand new to UC, this forum would scare me by reading about
all the potential awful symptoms of severe UC and medications i might have to try down the road.
don't worry yourself to death!
good luck with everything as always