Yes to enemas, one of the best ways to get inflammation down at the very bottom.
Even if your symptoms are mild there may still be inflammation which needs to be reduced. Inflammation untreated over a long term could cause cellular changes and that's not good. Think of an ulcer that never heals.
I don't know how much it will cost for you but it's about
$8-$9/enema when I get a months worth. I have insurance but high deductible so it is paid by me. Is it worth it? Yes, absolutely.
Re: spouse. I go to bed before my DH so no problem and on "date" nights do it afterwards because he's a nightowl who gets up to watch TV. Some people can use their enemas standing up but I can't do it, have to do it in bed lying down and then off to sleep.
It takes a couple times before you get the hang of it but once you do it's easy as 1-2-3 sleep
You have a good doctor.