Hi..yes...it sounds as though 5ASA meds don't agree with you at all.
You should discuss other med options with your GI or have the surgery. I would probably ask for a second opinion.
Only you can determine the quality of life you want...but if you've only been on the 5ASA meds..that alone can be in part what's happening with some of your symptoms.
Ask for the steroid enemas while you're on the pred.
Have you been checked for c.diff?
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