thoreau, i have never had mono myself, but my cousin had it in high school. i remember i didn't really know what it was at the time- just thought it was "the kissing disease." she ended up missing almost an entire semester of school and ended up having to go to summer school. so going by what i know from her experience, i would HATE being in your position, especially since you've gotten it twice already. obviously, it doesn't help that your immune system can't do it's magic.
as for your new woman, i bet your next kiss will be awesome because you have to wait so long for it!