Carrie,
Welcome to the forum.
Sorry you are suffering, and that you're having the side effects on top of UC.
I get that you're fed up and tired of being prodded...
Are you willing to do any supplementation as in: L-glutamine, slippery elm powder, probiotics?
These are all good choices. Diet modification? Food journal?
What about looking into LDN, low dose naltrexone, which has almost ZERO side effects?
There are things IMO that you can control, which will have a direct impact on
your disease, the symptoms you experience and their severity.
I was able to control my UC into remission through various
supplements, probiotics, diet modification, and LDN , low dose
naltrexone.
For more info on the protocol which has put me into remission,
please go to this link: https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=38&m=1666318 , and look at the 11th post.
I hope you feel better and let us know how we can help
you.