You might want to try the ostomy forum. While we have a lot of active UCers here, most of the people who have had surgery are on the ostomy board. Another thing I notice about
people on the ostomy board, is that once they had surgery and got past it, often they don't post so much. Only people who are having trouble or are really well known members stick around. You might be able to use the search feature at the top right to find some info.
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