Hi spugsie,
Sorry I haven't checked in for a while.
I too was told by many Dr's who were considered experts that there were other ways to get cured or live with this , yet none of them realized how I was getting worse & worse & could barely do any normal activities.
It was no picnic having it done but I am SO glad I did it , after the procedure the surgeon said the Pericardium was like a white blanket around my heart & nobdy could see that through many tests before the surgery.
I am cured for the most part & thank God evry day for helping through my decision to get my life back. If you move forward find the best guy you can but this is not considered the toughest of procedures by the really good surgeons.
You have a nice young family with lots of living to do. Hopefully you will find the courage to get it done if that is what you are feeling.
I have been through many Heart & health issues with Me & other Family members but this is one where the experts still scratch their head on how to treat it.
Keep us informed, Boog