UnHappy86 - Hi there! I am 5 weeks post op and am still on liquids and things like yoghurt and custard. I have got such a lot of swelling still that I can't get anything else down. My surgeon told me that some people get more swelling than others and it lasts longer (up to 4 months)! So I am not rushing it and will stay on this type if diet until at least week 12.
What symptoms of reflux are you having? Is it as bad as before? Have they checked that the wrap is still in place? Did you have a Hernia repair aswell?
I think if you look back at the older threads (1 and 2) some other peolpe were having trouble with the shoulder pain.
I know you feel horrible but try not to panic. We will get through this together! Stress will make you feel worse (as I know you already know). I have been craving real food too! I always make my own bread and the smell of it is driving me crazy!
Let us know how you feel today and if your doctor gets back to you with any suggestions. If you want to email me just have a look in my profile for my address.