Chris,
I am so sorry that I rambled on when you had a crisis. This is what I do when i am scared to death : Thinking of the worst scenario.
Let's say they do find something bad then they will cut it out and you will be cured. Liver is a big thing and if you find it early it's a great luck that you had all this gerd and stuff. After that(money/stress/pain/work concerns) you would have to have tests more often for a while(bother/stress and money) but you will be fine in the end like my dad.
See, the reason i am telling you the dooms day's scenario is to show that,
1. I really do think in your shoes
2. You would come out FINE IN THE END WHATSOEVER.
How about
that?
Gee, you have had a bad day indeed....(shaking my head, tsking)
Here, let us hold your hand while you wait and have tests done. We are all here for you. I wish i could cook something for you. That's what we do for a friend who is sick physically or emotionally and you are BOTH.
Gail,
I mispelled you name up there too! Sorry.
And seriously i do envy you for over and beyond THIS. I am not saying this impulsively. I remember when my mom had her 52th birthday(when i was barely 20's), thinking, how wonderful it is to be that age! I wish i could go to sleep now and wake up 55 or something. They say, enjoy when you are younger even a day but well, i will enjoy when i ACTUALLY CAN is what I say. Lol
Viv,
Really, you must be concerned i understand. In this economy we all worry about
money and our children's performance at school. I wonder if you know the reason she is dropping her classes. I tell my daughter always plan ahead now when she has more times but i can't be sure. Nobody can be sure about
the future. I know a son of my husband's collegue who 'enjoyed his life' doing all sorts of things for almost 5 years after finishing college on time and then went back to school for premed and now in medical school at the age 32. Don't be stressed out because there is nothing you can actually do. Have a perspective.
You are my menopause buddy, then. Haha
Let's do this things together.
Life is full of surprises. Bad for now but there were good surprises too so...
Post Edited (Willovercome) : 4/4/2013 6:35:49 PM (GMT-6)