Hi noslack,Welcome to the Healing Well
Wrap Club!
Your surgeon, like so many others (the majority, I believe) did not prepare you properly for what to expect during recovery. I've often wondered about
why that is the case. Most likely, they just plain don't know. Surgeons do their surgery, maybe see their patient one more time, then set them free to heal. They most likely haven't a clue about
the real recovery experience. My other theory is that they just don't want to scare their patients away. You'll have to ask your surgeon to find out his/her reason.
That's exactly why a forum like this one is so important. I just wish you'd found us sooner, as we could have helped prepare you, and help you through these first difficult weeks. As Sharon told you, this surgery takes six months for most of the healing and a year for the rest. I found improvements into the second year. Since I had my Nissen in 2009, I've learned that most major surgeries take that long for full healing.
Walking was the key to my shoulder pain. The more I walked, the better it felt, and visa versa. You don't have to walk fast or long. Frequent trips around the house can be enough. Just get up and get moving. Start slow, and build your distance/time as you feel you can.
If you planned to go back to work very early, that in itself can slow down your recovery. You have undergone major surgery. Laproscopic procedures don't show on the outside, the extent of trauma that was experienced on the inside. Your five little slits will heal quickly, but the internal stress and necessary healing internally, will take much longer.
Stomach surgery often causes dumping syndrome, and it's easy to panic and think that you'll have to deal with it forever. That's just not true. I remember before I had my surgery, I started reading really scary posts people posted online. It kept me from getting surgery I badly needed (my lungs were very badly affected by the reflux I was getting, and my family doc said that they were "life threatening"). I've since come to the conclusion that the vast majority of those posts were written by people in the throes of early recovery symptoms.
Here is a link to information that will help you with your dumping issue:
gicare.com/diets/anti-dumping-post-gastrectomy-diet/Hang in there...it gets better!!! Once healed, you'll be so happy you went through all this. It's well worth it. Try to surrender to your recovery and follow its lead. Adjust your diet to how you're feeling. It's not a straight up track to recovery...there are ups and downs along the way. If you can relax, and listen to your body, giving it permission to heal in its own sweet time, you'll find this all much easier. As Bill, another moderator, says, "This recovery is a marathon, not a sprint."
Stick around for lots of support and information!
Happy healing,
Denise