Anne,
I just read your last post in the other thread and I will leave it there but I hope that you will start posting to us in this thread.
Anyone can join in and share however that does not necessarily mean that everyone will receive a comment. I have posted many times but to help and support not necessarily looking for a response from my sharing. I have thousands of posts and trust me members will go right past mine and onto something else. I would have left a long time ago if not getting a response meant members did not support me.
That does not mean they have overlooked me, they are just reading through and posting what they choose whether it be to share or to support.
This forum has many more people who are having the surgery or have been through it so many threads are about that.
You and I and some others are in the miniority but that does not mean we are not valued members of this forum. I am sorry if you let a post or a thread upset you. No one meant anything that was posted to cause you anxiety.
I hope you reconsider and stay with the group.
Also my email is open so if you want to talk privately, I am always willing to listen.
Kitt