Can GERD be make one this miserable?

I had similar problems to you a year ago. It's much better these days, so yes, things can be done. I've been reading this board on and off for over a year and it's obvious there is no one size fits all solution. You need to keep trying things until you find what works for you, and I guess there are people for whom there are no solutions. I don't want to pretend to tell you what will help, but I'll let you know what helped me.

Medicine: I take Nexium. Works for me, not for everyone. Yes, try a different medication if necessary. Some people say don't use any medicines, use more natural methods. Your call. However, I can suggest one thing. When it was at its worst, the endoscopy found a very small ulcer as well. My doctor prescribed carafate. Its a liquid that is prescribed for ulcers. However, it seemed to soothe my esohagus, which was inflamed. I kept some around for about six months and whenever I had an acid attack I would take the carafate for a few days. It really helped stop the inflammation (at least the sensations I associated with it). I don't know if the liquid antacids like Mylanta are as effective. I would assume the doctor would be willing to try carafate on you due to your inflammation.

I changed my diet. I now know the foods can take more than a few hours to create a problem. I stopped w/ the soda (caffeine and carbonated beverages are no-nos; you don't want to burp if you can help it). Cut down on chocolate, alcohol and certain carbs. I found that regular bread was a problem. I use low carb tortilla wraps for sandwiches now.

I read that sedatives can be a problem. They relax your muscles INCLUDING the LES which keeps the acid down.

I got an acid reflux pillow. I absolutely hate the thing but it helped. You can also raise the head of the bed. The idea is to raise the top part of the body. I used it for several months. I no longer need it.

I cut out certain stress creators. I'm convinced this was part of my problem. I remember others complaining that antibiotics were a catalyst for serious problems. I also started w/ the good bacteria from certain yogurts when I was on the mend. They now have pills that you can take for 30 days that replace the good bacteria in your stomach. Good idea after you are on antibiotics.

My gastro doctor said I could also have a gallbladder problem. I know a few people have written that after they have had it removed their acid reflux was worse. I found out my gallbladder was full of sludge. I cut down on my fat, which has also helped. I haven't needed to remove it yet despite a few gallbladder attacks.

I remember websites out there that gave other suggestions.

Good luck.

mlp