anxiousbob and others,
I'm happy to share my experience and hope that it helps. I've been off Cymbalta for almost 2 months now. Of course, it didn't fix the fatigue I was having so I'm still trying to figure that out. But I guess I would have had to get off the Cymbalta at some point anyway so I'm glad I got it over with. I am currently on Latuda (40mg) and Lamictal (100mg, working up to 200mg).
I think I am lucky in that my withdrawal only lasted about 2 weeks, the worst of it about 10 days. I ended up going to work one day and it was awful so I took the rest of the week off. Like I said before the brain zaps were the worst I ever had them. Sadly, you get used to it, but it is always uncomfortable and a very strange feeling. I had very achy joints, I was emotional, and very irritable. There was one day that I cried for 45 minutes because I just couldn't stop. Other than that, there were things on tv or otherwise that would cause this surge of emotion like I was almost going to cry, but I couldn't tell if it was happy or sad. Very weird. Also, coming off the Cymbalta and even once the withdrawals were over, I was extremely irritable. Granted my summer has been pretty stressful, but I was feeling frustrated with everyone and everything very quickly and feeling irritable.
This is part of the reason we started with the Lamictal. I'm still hoping that will work for me. It is my first time on a mood stabilizer and I know my birth control can interfere with the effectiveness, so I'm hoping a higher dose will improve my overall mood and attitude. Playing with my medications makes me pretty anxious, but I've done it enough to know to just stay hopeful and keep on with my days despite depressive or anxious symptoms.....though I am not shy about calling my pdoc with any questions.
anxiousbob, good luck with your journey! Try not to get discouraged. I'll warn that even going from 30mg to 0 can still cause withdrawals, but take it slow. And most importantly, listen to your body and take care of yourself. If you're not feeling well don't push yourself, just take it easy and try not to get discouraged.
I really love sharing my experiences to help others. I'm not shy about my symptoms and medications I've tried. Please let us know how it goes, and good luck!