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Posted 7/24/2013 3:08 AM (GMT 0)
Tonight, I ran into someone who hurt me very badly when I was in high school. He brought up the topic in a round about way. And, after around 13 years, I said, "You hurt me in ways you don't even understand." He hugged me and said, "and I'm sorry in ways I don't even understand." I said, "It's okay now. Life moves on. You're okay." Then, I walked out of the store without crying.

BOOM! How's THAT for confronting one of those "traumatic events"?!?

I wish I had told him I forgive him, but I'm not sure I do - not like I need to. But, I'm not even adding that to my list of crap to worry about.
Posted 7/24/2013 3:19 AM (GMT 0)
Perhaps he always knew he was a jerk/*rick and had just enough class to recognize it, no mater you are Free! Peace

Larry ***
Posted 7/24/2013 3:23 AM (GMT 0)
:-D

Larry, this is one of the people I emailed you about, but not my ex. I kinda feel like going out and partying. lol
Posted 7/24/2013 3:56 AM (GMT 0)
Are you getting my emails?

Larry
Posted 7/24/2013 3:57 AM (GMT 0)
I haven't checked my email in a while. I'll go check it now. :)
Posted 7/24/2013 4:13 AM (GMT 0)
Larry, I just emailed you - twice. lol

Omigosh, I want all of those big ole doggies! I prefer a dog who outweighs the average human. :)
Posted 7/24/2013 4:25 AM (GMT 0)
I have two pit bulls one female white with black spots
a mail that is gun metal blue with green eyes.
neither one knows they are dogs.

LL
Posted 7/24/2013 4:32 AM (GMT 0)
I sent another animal vidio.

LL
Posted 7/24/2013 4:36 AM (GMT 0)
Great story and good outcome to a bad situation from the past!

You handled yourself well and should feel proud!

Peace.

S.C.
Posted 7/24/2013 4:39 AM (GMT 0)
One of my favorite dogs was a pittie. He was brown/gray/brennel with green eyes. HUGE for a pit.

He knew people were scared of him, so he would lay on his belly and scoot up to strangers, so they wouldn't be scared to pet him. Is that cute or what? :D

My brother bought him for me after this lady broke into our house because she said "god" sent her to kill all of the kids in the neighborhood because of "spare the rod, spoil the child" (yeah, really) The police let her go - even though she broke into 7 houses on our street that night!

I was too scared to sleep until big brother bought me "Mutt" - slept fine with him in the bed. lol
Posted 7/24/2013 4:42 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you, S.C.!
Posted 7/24/2013 4:50 AM (GMT 0)
Tiger sleeps between me and Carol, he will lay his head on our feet, he always knows when one of us
does not feel well, he scrunches up to us.
Peace/love

Larry ***
Posted 7/24/2013 4:51 AM (GMT 0)
They're so smart! :)
Posted 7/24/2013 7:29 PM (GMT 0)
Did you get the vidio of the Bear?

Larry
Posted 7/24/2013 9:50 PM (GMT 0)
I can't watch it. My computer is too old to watch flash videos. lol
Posted 7/24/2013 11:03 PM (GMT 0)
It's a great vidio, I will see if its avaiable in some other format.

Larry
Posted 7/25/2013 1:33 AM (GMT 0)
Oh, sweetie. Good for you. Thougths...
Posted 7/25/2013 1:46 AM (GMT 0)
Good for you! A few months ago, I ran into my ex's mom at a bookstore...and it was really awkward and I left in a panic (BAD breakup). So, good for you handling things so well :)
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