People tell me that I'm always "alone" :(

It makes me feel like I'm weird or anything. One co worker is asking me if I "go out with my boyfriend", he's an old man and I don't know if it's correct to ask a personal question like that but Ijust said: "no lol". and he said "I don't know if you have one, you are alwas alone, are you like this always?" like it's not normal or fine to be alone. I said: like that, how? and he said: lonely. being alone doesn't mean that I'm lonely or not always, I'm like other people, sometimes I feel good sometimes I feel lonely but being alone doesn't mean to be lonely. And I hate it people see it that way because they make me feel like they see me and they think like oh poor her she's alone. Like they feel sorry for me.

I would like to have a boyfriend but, I don't know I can't have one for some reason that's very difficult for me =/, but anyway it doesn't mean I'm lonely or that I FEEL alone. I don't have a boyfriend but I feel good. Why do they make me feel like I'm someone that makes people to feel sorry for me. It's not the first time sopmeone tells me this, some weeks ago, someone said: and do you have friends, I'm always see you alone, and he kind of laughed.

And I feel weird =( I dno't have to many friends and I've always liked being alone, I had a friend and we hung out and things but he moved and I'm not very sociable and don't feel comfortable with most of the people, but I do talk to my co workers and I spend time with them, sometimes even if I don't want to, but I do.

And why does it have to be this weird that people sees me alone and see it that way, like I'm lonely all the time. I feel weird :(

Well said by Larry!

I don't know why people think they have the right to make comments on anyone else's social life! How rude of them! This should just make you indignent of their bad behavior...not make you feel weird.

If you are weird, then so is everyone else...because we all have times of being on our own...I mean do you see your co-wokers in social situations? Probably not...so how could you make a judgement on their social status...you couldn't.

If you are happy, then let the ridiculous questions roll right off of your back.

If you are asked again...there is nothing wrong with letting the person know that this subject is none of their business.

Simply smile and say "Interesting"

When they ask "What is?"

Say "That you think this is any of your business" Keep the smile on your face to really throw them off!;p

Then just say "Bye now" and walk away.

You don't need to justify yourself to any rude inquiries!

I hope that this helps you to feel better about your situation...you have NO reason to feel weird, okay?

Hugs,

S.C.