Posted 1/16/2014 11:55 PM (GMT 0)
May I make a suggestion?
In addition to your walking with your friend, set aside some time 1-2 times a day, where you walk by yourself.
Sometimes, when we walk with another person, a lot of attention is spent trying to keep up to the pace of the other person. Now, even if their pace isn't necessarily fast,...for you, at this moment, temporarily,....it may be just a little much.
Add to that, if you two are chatting while walking, you're getting excited and your breathing and heart rate will elevate in addition to that of just the walk.
Three miles is also a long walk.
From the standpoint of someone with anxiety, how about trying 1/2 mile, or even 1 mile? By yourself, you control the pace. It's not a race, you're not trying to compare your pace with anyone.
By making the distance short, you make it very do-able. By doing it 1-2 times a day, you're practicing the experience of being able to walk without it causing a panic attack.
Plus, super bonus points, the more fit you get, and you will, you'll find those shared 3 mile walks are easier on your body and your mind! It's a win-win situation, all the way around.
Pick a time of day, and a distance, that you know you can commit, to yourself, and you know that you can finish. If you can walk 3 miles,....then doing those 1 mile walks, you already know inside you'll succeed at.
You need to experience the positive feeling of accomplishment, a job well-done, without panic popping along and kicking you in the pants!
You won't have to medicate every time you exercise. Honest! Especially if you commit to these "practice walks" on your own!
M.